ShowLove | Part 2 | Understand, Accept Or Both!

Hello, lovely people! I hope you all are doing well, happy, and understanding that loving yourself is NOTHING, EXCEPT EVERYTHING. Well, if you are reading this, I assume you want to show love or be loved. Before you proceed any further, I want to let you know that this entire piece I am writing is not scientifically proven or anything. It may just be utter nonsense, but if you believe in love, true love, then just trying to love will definitely show you the path of love.

So, today I am here with the second part, which is “Understand, if you can’t, just accept it.” I think I left you guys confused, so let me elaborate.

Go back to the first line where I said NOTHING, EXCEPT EVERYTHING. Take a moment to think about it. I’ll wait. Okay, done? I won’t ask you to tell me what you got from it, but I would love for you to hear me out. Why HATE? Have you ever thought about it? Hate doesn’t just happen from the start. Even with your friends and family, you may argue about something, and there will definitely be a moment when you say, “I just HATE her/him.” But WHY? Even if you don’t mean it, think about it. This is where my point lies. For you at that moment, it’s just NOTHING. You will just brush it off, saying, “I was in that moment and said I hate you, I did not mean it.” BUT did you? NOTHING may be wrong at that moment, but EXCEPT EVERYTHING will point at you, asking if you really HATE her/him or you just can’t understand or accept her/him.

You might find this odd when I say, “That’s good you argued, that’s nice you found a difference. Now go out, argue, find out what’s the difference you guys are facing, understand each other, know why she/he means what they do, understand the difference.” You might say, “Why ruin the relationship we already have? Why break it more?” I’ll say to you, whether it’s friends, family, or a significant other, a relationship is like ore covered by rock. The more you refine it by breaking it, the more expensive and pure it becomes. So, for the relationship to become more pure, first break it, remove all the HATE, and understand it.

Been a long process, and still can’t understand each other? Have both of you done your best to refine it? Is it at a point where refining it is so difficult that it’s not possible anymore? Then just accept it. Accept that there is a difference. Try to live with it, sleep on it, see why it’s important for the other person to have it. Put yourself in their place and see. You might wonder why it’s important for her/him for you to just accept it. I say to you, acceptance is truly a heroic act. You may not feel like it, but be sure that if you HATE yourself for accepting, the hate will be overpowered by LOVE from her/him for accepting it.

So, it’s just NOTHING, EXCEPT EVERYTHING.

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